Sexual sovereignty feels complex, but it’s not rocket science (hell, rocket science might actually seem more straightforward to your brain).
And f*ck, you’ve already put so much into your growth—EMDR, IFS, EFT, Constellations, plant medicine, and more, I’m sure.
You’ve done the work.
You’re a trailblazer.
Yet there are so few people you can turn to who can hold the 🧨 powerhouse genius you bring into your work and the messy, deeply-loving, ❤️🔥 tenderly-budding, ever-evolving human you also are.
Except me.
I’ve been in training my whole fking life to cross paths with you right now.
I mean, obviously it wasn’t for you that I built a leading-edge biz with the husband of my dreams so we could have the picture-perfect life—only for me to realize that no amount of zeros after the dollar sign equals health, happiness, or freedom…
Nor was it for you that I came out as polyamorous, then queer… went through a heart-breaking divorce… became estranged from my mom… watched my dad pass away (over FaceTime 😭)…
(and, in the meantime, explored my gender, sexuality, and kinks… fell in love (not lust) 30+ times over the past decade… and had my heart broken in about 8 of those relationships…)
None of that was for you.
Nor was it for you that I became so f*cking diligent about figuring out how to build deeply loving, intimate connections where I get to be 💯 true to myself—without feeling devastated or betrayed or needing dozens of hours of emotional processing to make it work.
(Well… unless you were my daughter. Then maybe it was for both of us. But you’re not my daughter. So again—none of it was for you.)
But all of it exists now to benefit you.
To support you.
To smooth and accelerate your process.
Now we get to make time together for the conversations you’ve had a dozen times in your head or a dozen times with someone you love, so we can find a better, more effective, more aligned way forward.
“Why did that last conversation feel like it went nowhere?”
“How did you know when it was time to call it quits with the partner you were always fighting or f*cking?”
“Isn’t it kinda gross to do [x]?
…I mean, besides that I’ve always been kinda curious about [y]…”
“How do you navigate sexual health with multiple partners?
Don’t you ever get jealous?”
Let’s talk through the edgy inner truths your friends and family have no framework for understanding—
let alone living, or giving you advice on.
I am here now, for you, so you finally have someone you can ask:
“Wendy, how did you handle it when you’d tried having this conversation for 6 months and…?”
Or whatever else your heart is aching to ask someone with far more nuance, clarity, and lived experience than anyone else you know.
Because I’m your person for this phase of your evolution.
Step into your Sexual Sovereignty Breakthrough Era with me.
It’s the portal to your alive, aligned, sexy future.
…cuz we both know that telling your inner Yessss “not now” is exactly what keeps you turning on Netflix instead of discovering what actually turns you on.